Highlights of our years together, in bullet points. :)
- We met up in New York when Negeen was studying there and Kouros was visiting grad schools. We ordered the same drink and by chance it was the best and most crucial drink we ever had.
- Kouros moved to New York on his 25th birthday in 2010. Our journey together began.
- We got a little cat and named him Jean Paul Wolverine in 2012. He only answers to "Peesh".
- We studied late nights together and began careers in Psychology and Advertising.
- We spent countless hours on Megabus and Boltbus and Amtrak travelling back and forth between New York and Philly for over four years.
- We traveled, hibernated, laughed, and loved together and with family and friends over the years.
- We got engaged on August 23, 2014 at Negeen's favorite place, on the porch of her family home. Kouros got down on one knee and proposed to Negeen after reading "On Love" by Kahlil Gibran (with the help of our families).
"On Love" by Kahlil Gibran
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
And, as a bonus, the photos from our engagement party in 2015 can be found HERE!!